If this article has caught your interest then perhaps you are one of the many women out there who just can’t seem to find a man.
Well, to be fair it’s not like you can’t find a man, it’s more like you can’t find the right man. One would think, “How difficult can it be to meet an interesting, attractive, and successful man?” Apparently, it is.
Although, I can’t guarantee that you will meet your future husband, I will attempt to give you some tips on how to meet men by doing some fun things for yourself in the process.
I was never good at math or statistics but it stands to reason that the more men you put yourself in contact with, the more likely you will be able find that potential mate.
Don’t waste another second, follow these tips and you’ll find yourself having quite a bit of fun while crossing paths with some potentials.
Get out there! I’m not talking about bars and clubs, I’m talking about real activities. Take an art class, learn a foreign language, take dance lessons, sign up for horse back riding or boating, join a book club, or volunteer.
Anything, just get out there. Of course it helps if you choose something that interests you, so that you A) actually have fun and B) meet possible prospects that share your same interests.
Go to sporting events. If you are a sports fan then great but if not, then get a group of people together and go anyway. It would be a good idea to take both genders on this outing and try to include a few outgoing people as well.
This way, some of the more talkative folks in your group can be-friend a few other fans, making it more likely to get talking to some hotties.
And if not, then you get talking! Also, having a few guys thrown into your entourage would just help the overall brotherly bonding that seems to go on at sporting events.
They start talking to the guys next to them, in front of them and behind them about what’s happening and the next thing you know, you’ve just met a few more men.
Host a pot luck at the beach, park, neighborhood clubhouse or some other large free venue. It doesn’t have to be for any special event, have it just for the fun of it.
And as these happen to be tough times financially for many people, this event doesn’t have to cost much because you would be having it at a place free of charge and each person would contribute a dish. If the turn out is good, this could even become a regular thing.
Host a weekly or bi-weekly game night. You can invite a few of your friends and tell them to invite some of their friends. Have people bring snacks and small dishes.
Make sure to have a variety of games that interests a wide range of people. One thing to note about this event is that you have to be careful that it doesn’t turn into a couples thing.
You don’t want only couples coming over unless they are bringing a few of their single friends along as well. Sounds a little heartless, but hey you are not hosting a couples only event. Well, not quite yet anyway.
A Few Suggestions for Meeting Mr. Right
It is ironic that many women spend time looking for Mr. Right in all the wrong places. I hear so many single women say they are looking for a man, but the only place they look is the local bars and taverns.
Six months later they are appalled to find out they have hooked up with an alcoholic. (Not in all cases.)
This isn’t a guide for one night stands or quick hook ups, but if you are really interested in meeting the man of your dreams then read on.
Regardless of where you are it is important to relax and be yourself. Eliminate the mindset of “going out to meet a guy.” Go out with your friends to have a good time.
If you are more relaxed and wearing a smile it is more likely that a guy will approach you.
If you look uptight and eagle-eyed men will run in the opposite direction. Men can spot a man-hawk a mile away.
Don’t be a wallflower, but you also do not need to be the center of attention to attract the male who has gained your attention. Some men shy away from women who are extremely extroverted.
If that is your natural personality, then stick with it. Be who you are. But if you like to be loud and obnoxious to get noticed it’s time to tone down. Back off and you may find that the man you want to meet is moving in.
This goes back to your core personality, who you are, and what you are looking for in a man. Don’t act like you are better than everyone else to catch a man. You will certainly lose him when he finds out you are a lot like the other women on the dating scene.
That’s right: diversify. You don’t have to diversify your taste, just diversify your place. Spend time in coffee shops, book stores, and electronics stores. You may not be interested in electronic gadgets, the latest cell phone, or notebook computer but a lot of men are interested in electronics. D
on’t fake an interest yourself. In fact, if you need help buying a new phone or other electronic device why not approach someone in the store for help.
The easiest way to meet men is to be soft and approachable. Don’t overdo it with hair, make-up, clothes, or drama. Be yourself and let your inner beauty shine to meet the man of your dreams.