How to Intensely Attract Men Anytime, Anywhere
One of the hardest things for a girl to figure out is how to attract men and keep the attraction flowing. That second part there is key, because it’s fairly easy to initially attract men- a miniskirt and lots of mascara will usually do the trick.
If you’re like me though, you’re definitely more interested in attracting men who are attracted to who you are, not just certain body parts!
Everyone knows that looks count, but so do personality, ambitions, dreams, interests, and chemistry when you want to attract men.
How to Attract Men Tip #1: The Looks
Yes, we’ll get to personality and more in-depth concepts next. First off, ladies you have to deal with your looks if you want to attract men! Guys are visual creatures.
They are certainly able to love and cherish a woman for who she is and not only her looks, but when they haven’t even met her yet, there is no personality in existence to attract them.
Attraction begins from physical chemistry – of which a significant part is good looks.
Many women think they need to look like a supermodel to attract men. It’s not true, but I’ve been there too.
Scrutinizing beauty magazines, adding an extra half hour to the daily workout, and worrying constantly if I was beautiful enough or looking hot enough that day to attract men…
The point is guys want a girl who is well groomed, so if you want to attract men it is essential that you take care of yourself on the outside too!
Paying attention to the looks doesn’t mean the highly attractive woman needs to be the next Katherine Heigl. It means she keeps her hair shiny and trimmed, her nails look healthy and feminine, and her skin is clear.
She has bright eyes, white teeth, and respects herself enough to keep in good shape. After the initial attraction is made, emotional and intellectual attraction can happen.
A woman who takes pride in her appearance is one that will always attract men. She isn’t overdone or trying too hard, but she cares, and that is very attractive to guys.
How to Attract Men Tip #2: The Personality
Personality is a huge issue when it comes to trying to attract men. Here are the basic concepts of the feminine personality that drives guys crazy (in a good way!)
Men love a woman who has a feminine personality. This doesn’t mean being dumb blonde, prissy, stuck up, or air head-like in order to attract men.
A woman who is feminine is kind, with a maternal instinct to protect and take care of others. A feminine woman is soft, gentle, firm in her beliefs, and compassionate.
She isn’t aggressive towards others, especially not other women. This woman can attract men easily because she makes them feel like men, through her femininity.
She is loving and ultimately confident in herself. She cares about others, but her personality shines with unstoppable self-confidence. She can attract men because she is all that, and she knows it.
A feminine woman is never bitchy or rude, but will always hold her ground on what she believes. The fact that she is confident in herself and keeps her life busy and fulfilled is her prize ticket to attracting men.
Simple Moves to Help You Meet Men
So you want to know how to get a guy to like you? The steps offered will help you to attract a man as well as boosting your self esteem.
You need to know that the first requirement for attracting a guy and getting him to like you is to have a lot of self confidence.
You can build up you self confidence by being comfortable with who you are. Being loud or arrogant is not a confidence booster.
In fact, most men do not like a loud arrogant woman. You need to be secure with who you are and be interesting and humble at the same time.
You can give yourself a boost by getting a new hair cut or trying to learn something new that you have always wanted to achieve.
Take a class online or join a yoga class. Exercise produces a healthy body and mind.
So now that you are ready to attract a man. How do you get a guy to like you? You need to get his attention first. You can not catch him if he does not know that you are alive.
You have to make the first move. This can be as simple as saying “Hello”. If he says “hi” back then you know he has taken notice and this is a perfect time to start talking to him.
Talk about what he likes. His hobbies or interests are good conversation starters. Do not talk only about you. This is a sure fire way to turn him off instantly.
Talking helps him to learn about you. Essentially you will grow on him. Do not forget to flirt and show your humorous side. Telling a joke is a great way to ease some of the tension you may be having when talking to him for the first time.
Plus it lets him know that you can be playful and guys like that in a woman. Laughter also helps you to find a common ground. You want to be with a person that you can have fun with.
Once you have established a connection you can start going out together. Do things that he has an interest in. Possibly, he could teach you one of his hobbies.
Skateboarding, baseball, rock climbing. What ever he likes. He will appreciate that you are taking such an interest.
This does not mean that you should not include him in things that you like to do. You can take him to a concert of a band that you really love. Bring him a great book that you just read.
The little nice gestures will help create moments that bond. Take your time. Do not rush the relationship. Guys do not like to be pushed. Pushing just shows a needy side which guys hate. So, give him his space.
At some point the two of you will be able to tell if there is a spark between the two of you. It should be a natural process. If you are not feeling a connection, it can not be forced.
Move on. You already know that you can talk to men so go talk to another one and repeat the process.
Do not blame yourself if it does not work out. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You just have to throw out the bait in order to catch a good one. Remember just as you have a particular taste in men so will the guys you chase.
Keep your dignity and self confidence through out this process. It is not going to happen over night.
Because you are taking the steps to meet someone, eventually a good guy will see that you are what he wants in his life.
He will notice that you are different from other women and appreciate that. Your plan to get a guy to like you is only a wave or “hello” away!